“Trauma therapy & relationship counselling”
Counselling in Kensington, London. Relationship Psychologist in Kensington.
The Relationship & Trauma Psychologist in London
Are you anxious or feeling low? Do you struggle with your self-esteem? Do you feel like a failure and fear rejection and abandonment? Perhaps you have difficulties attracting or keeping others and feel lonely & disconnected? Or you may struggle to know what you feel and find decisions paralysing.
From the outside you function very well, but you sense that something is not quite right inside. You may have struggled for a very long time, unable to feel entirely safe in the world or even with yourself. You long to leave the past behind, be healthier have meaningful, fulfilling connections.
The Relationship & Trauma Psychologist is a highly confidential and established relationship counselling and trauma therapy clinic in Kensington, London founded by Dr Nikos Tsigaras. It is also an international online counselling service. Many of our clients are high striving expats working in the finance sector, business, law, diplomacy, medicine or as consultants. We are a neurodivergence and LGBTQIA+ friendly service.
Trauma is often at the heart of many relationship difficulties and professional success. My clients have often experienced adverse events such as childhood trauma or childhood emotional neglect. Abuse, bullying, and bereavement have often happened early in life.
I employ Intensive Short-Term Psychodynamic Therapy which is often the treatment of choice for relationship and trauma-related difficulties, as well as intellectualising high achievers. It involves identifying invisible patterns of relating to both others and ourselves, and processing trauma and neglect stemming from childhood experiences.
Come and see me if you struggle with:
Addressing trauma and neglect and its effect on current relationships
Making romantic, family or professional relationships work
Making your relationship with yourself work (low-self esteem, lack of confidence, self-doubt)
Managing your anxiety (generalised, social, health, performance, panic attacks)
Managing your mood (depression, emptiness, boredom, agitation)
Recovering from health conditions (e.g. Long Covid, ME/CFS)
Our Approach
Is holistic and comprehensive, with a commitment to diversity
Places ethical engagement at the centre of the therapeutic relationship
Is ambitious and aims at deep, long-lasting change.
Psychology Kensington
How therapy can help
Individual counselling and therapy
14 years of NHS and private experience helping clients from all walks of life
Individual relationship and marriage counselling
Communicate better, connect better
Free resources
Articles and information on individual and couples’ well being
Who we are
meaningful connections are at the centre of our lives
Dr Nikos Tsigaras
PsychD MSc MSc BSc
Senior counselling psychologist in London. Founder of the Relationship & Trauma Psychologist
Therapist Blog
Healthy relationships, Healthy selves
Why is Trauma Therapy a type of Relationship Counselling?
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